Self Reflection Dress

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$385 retail

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Stylist Notes

Say yes to this Tibi dress! A classic black and white style that is sexy, sophisticated and ready to impress. Accessorize with the Badgley Mischka's Entrancing Emerald Earrings.

Size & Fit

This dress runs small. We recommend sizing up (see following fit notes for exceptions). Sized 0-12.

BUST: Works best for A to C cup sizes – dress fitted at bust
WAIST: Fitted – dress fitted throughout midsection
HIPS: Fitted – curvier women should consider sizing up
LENGTH: Mid-thigh -(on a 5'7" model)

UNDERGARMENTS: May be worn with any standard bra
FABRIC: Fabric has no stretch
GREAT FOR: Athletic, Hourglass, Petite, Tall, Straight & Narrow body types
(Model's height is 5'10".)

Size & Fit Notes

This dress runs small. We recommend sizing up (see following fit notes for exceptions). Sized 0-12.

BUST: Works best for A to C cup sizes – dress fitted at bust
WAIST: Fitted – dress fitted throughout midsection
HIPS: Fitted – curvier women should consider sizing up
LENGTH: Mid-thigh -(on a 5'7" model)

UNDERGARMENTS: May be worn with any standard bra
FABRIC: Fabric has no stretch
GREAT FOR: Athletic, Hourglass, Petite, Tall, Straight & Narrow body types
(Model's height is 5'10".)

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Product Details

Black printed silk twill (100% Silk). Cap sleeves. Crew neckline. Shift body. Hidden back center zipper with hook-and-eye closure. Lined (100% acetate). 34” from shoulder to hem. Imported.

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51 reviews
Fit
Large5
True to Size31
Small12
Top Contributor
Size worn:
None
Overall fit:
Small
Rented for:
Wedding
Usually wears: 2
Height: 5' 3"
Age: 27
Bust size: 34C
Body type: Hourglass
Weight: 120lbs
January 11, 2015
Small in hips, baggy in bust and waist
I'm about a 34"-25-36". This dress just bunched up in the bust and waist, but was super snug in the hips. My backup size fit in the hips much better, but then the dress just looked like it was hanging on me because of the waist up being too big. Too bad, because it was lovely. A very appropriate length. The pattern is printed, not embroidered.
Size worn:
6
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Party
Usually wears: 6
Height: 5' 4"
Age: 44
Bust size: 34A
Body type: Straight & narrow
Weight: 128lbs
December 12, 2014
Lovely, but not stupendous. Static Cling too
unique dress, loved the length and fabric pattern. The fabric THICKNESS was a shock. Somehow online it looked that that thick silk that almost seems to have a very thin layer of stuffing in it. NO, instead, this dress is like a silk scarf with another silk lining. Good thing I had my spanx or it would have shown every imperfection. Also static cling was an issue. Took off my winter coat and it was all stuck to my stomach and legs. On me, the dress was not form fitting, there was some room in the waist, it draped nicely and I liked that, but once the static kicked in, not good. Evenutally it went away.
Top Contributor
Size worn:
2
Rented for:
Other
Usually wears: 4
Height: 5' 3"
Age: 27
Bust size: 34A
Body type: Petite
Weight: 120lbs
December 9, 2014
Great Customer Service.
Loved this dress. It was true to size. I have a smaller bust and it fit great but would not recommend with someone with a larger bust. The material does not stretch. It was short but I wore tights and flats instead of heels. The material is almost silk so because I wore tights it kept sticking to me from the static. It looked great. I got many compliments and would definitely rent again.
Top Contributor
Size worn:
12
Rented for:
Date
Usually wears: 10
Height: 5' 8"
Age: 26
Bust size: 36D
Body type: Hourglass
Weight: 176lbs
November 20, 2014
Beautiful pattern. Soft. Classy.
The cut is a little boxy and the material doesn't give. I wear a 34 DDD so the 10 was a little small on my bust so I decided to wear the 12 to be able to breathe and eat. Wore it to an anniversary dinner. Just fancy enough to make it special and look nice but not over the top. The pattern is slimming and elegant.
Size worn:
8
Rented for:
Party
Usually wears: 8
Height: 5' 1"
Age: 51
Bust size: 34B
Body type: Petite
Weight: 140lbs
November 18, 2014
Wore to work party that had black and white theme
Wore the 8 It fit well on the top but snug on the bottom. The 10 had more room in the hip area but Too large on top
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Top Contributor
Size worn:
6
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Party
Usually wears: 6
Height: 5' 4"
Age: 24
Bust size: 34C
Body type: Hourglass
Weight: 135lbs
October 2, 2014
This dress was effortless!
I loved this dress because I wasn't too sure how casual the bridal shower I went to was going to be. This dress was very versatile in that regard--it can definitely be dressed up or down however you like. I was very comfortable with the 6. It was a tad tight in the hips, but the 8 looked like a bag around my waist. I wore some spanx and that pretty much took care of the hip issue.
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Top Contributor
Size worn:
6
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Wedding
Usually wears: 6
Height: 5' 6"
Age: 27
Bust size: 36B
Body type: Athletic
Weight: 138lbs
September 23, 2014
Simple yet sexy
The dress fit well except it felt a little tight/short when I was sitting down. Maybe I should have tried on the 8. But otherwise the 6 fit well! Great for a wedding.
Top Contributor
Size worn:
4
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Wedding
Usually wears: 4
Height: 5' 4"
Age: 30
Bust size: 34C
Body type: Athletic
Weight: 125lbs
September 16, 2014
This dress is awesome! It's really comfortable but classy.
I loved the silky fabric, but it did wrinkle a little bit. Really only an issue if you're planning to sit a lot. The length was perfect for my height. You can wear regular bra which is always nice. It's great for dancing. I have broader shoulders and slimmer hips and the 4 fit perfectly.
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Top Contributor
Size worn:
0
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Formal Affair
Usually wears: 0
Height: 5' 2"
Age: 35
Bust size: 32C
Body type: Petite
Weight: 110lbs
September 15, 2014
It was a gorgeous dress, I didn't love the fit.
I am slender, but I felt the dress hugged me in all the wrong places and I didn't feel great in it. That said, I got lots of compliments! I wish the dress was a tiny bit thicker.
Top Contributor
Size worn:
8
Overall fit:
Small
Rented for:
Formal Affair
September 14, 2014
Felt elegant. Wore to a christening party at a fancy catering venue.
Ordered the 6 which is my usual size. Ended up westing the alternate size 8. Fit snug, but comfortable.
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Top Contributor
Size worn:
4
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Other
Usually wears: 6
Height: 5' 9"
Age: 26
Bust size: 36C
Body type: Hourglass
Weight: 140lbs
August 31, 2014
Great for Bridal Luncheon!! Especially since it's not the traditional white!
GREAT dress for my bridal luncheon. I didn't want just a white dress. This still stood out, and was extremely flattering. The material doesn't stretch at all, but the sizing was right on. I wanted to keep it!!
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Top Contributor
Size worn:
0
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Formal Affair
Usually wears: 0
Height: 5' 5"
Age: 29
Bust size: 32A
Body type: Straight & narrow
Weight: 115lbs
July 30, 2014
Just okay.
This dress wasn't as great as I expected. I didn't think the quality was as strong as most Tibi dresses I've worn. Thought the material was a little thin and rough feeling. That being said, the pattern is very unique and with some jewlery it worked out!
Size worn:
10
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Wedding
Usually wears: 12
Height: 5' 4"
Age: 23
Bust size: 36C
Body type: Hourglass
July 21, 2014
The fit was amazing and the fabric was SO soft and stretchy!
The dress was amazing! My hips are a little larger than the rest of my body so it was a bit tight around my hips. Otherwise it fit like a glove. The fabric is very soft and stretch... to a certain extent. The design on the outer edge is not stitched onto the material but printed on it. There is nothing that was uncomfortable about this dress. I would definitely recommend it to anyone who would like to rent it. It was perfect for a wedding, it was conservative but form fitting and not too short but enough to keep it interesting.
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Top Contributor
Size worn:
12
Overall fit:
Small
Rented for:
Date
Usually wears: 12
Height: 5' 1"
Age: 33
Bust size: 36C
Body type: Hourglass
Weight: 150lbs
June 25, 2014
Perfectly suited a fancy dinner date
The dress has no stretch and was pretty tight around the booty, but with my spanx I was in fair shape. However, the dress was very classy, for my body type I won't rent it again.
Top Contributor
Size worn:
2
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Other
Usually wears: 2
Height: 5' 2"
Age: 33
Bust size: 34B
Body type: Petite
June 19, 2014
Overall good rental
This dress was just as expected - true to size without any surprises. I rented a 2 and 4 and went with the 2. I do agree with other reviewers in that the dress is quite short when seated. I'm pretty short at 5'2" so it's something I'm not used to and a fit issue I rarely encounter! It wasn't that bad in the end but still something to be aware of just in case you're renting this dress to meet your future mother in law for the first time or something :)
Top Contributor
Size worn:
2
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Wedding
Usually wears: 0
Height: 5' 9"
Age: 33
Bust size: 32D
Body type: Hourglass
June 2, 2014
Pretty dress but a little short
I wore this dress for the rehearsal dinner of my cousin's wedding. It was a like, not a love. I am 5'9" and it is a bit short. Also the dress wrinkles somewhat easily when you sit down, so if you want to look perfectly polished all night, I don't recommend it. Since it was just for the rehearsal dinner, it worked just fine, but if I had ordered for the actual wedding, I would have been disappointed. The best part of the dress is the design that makes your figure look super slim!
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Top Contributor
Size worn:
2
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Wedding
Usually wears: 0
Height: 5' 2"
Age: 26
Bust size: 32D
Body type: Petite
Weight: 120lbs
May 26, 2014
Above and beyond customer service to ensure I had a complete wedding look!
The dress is beautiful and hugs in all the right places. It is short but not too short and tight but not too tight; it is the perfect wedding guest dress: classy and sexy. It is a bit snug on the hips and chest so curvier girls beware. The best part about this dress was that it wasn't my original selection. I found my original dress to not be wedding appropriate. I was working 15 hour days and had no time to select a new dress so Madison (RTR rep) sent me several styles that were available and had it shipped out the second I approved. On an even bigger note, the bracket I had originally rented was broken on arrival and Madison sent THREE pieces of additional jewelry to wear with my new dress, free of charge and way more than my bracelet rental. I will be a RTR fan for life!!
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Top Contributor
Size worn:
0
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Wedding
Usually wears: 0
Height: 5' 4"
Age: 25
Bust size: 34B
Body type: Petite
Weight: 117lbs
May 20, 2014
Good fit - not as dressy as anticipated
Fits really well - true to size. However, I thought the white design would be stitched onto the dress, not printed. Should've done more research.. Made the dress more casual/day dress and the wedding was black tie. Prob should've gone with a long dress, but still totally cute. And it was comfortable!
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Top Contributor
Size worn:
None
Overall fit:
Large
Rented for:
Party
Usually wears: 2
Height: 5' 2"
Age: 34
Bust size: 32B
Body type: Athletic
Weight: 115lbs
May 6, 2014
Ran large- but beautiful!
Didnt get to wear it- read the reviews so ordered a 2 and 4 and even though its more of a shift dress the 2 was still too big
Top Contributor
Size worn:
NONE
Overall fit:
Large
Rented for:
Wedding
Usually wears: 6
Height: 5' 3"
Age: 26
Bust size: 32D+
Body type: Hourglass
Weight: 127lbs
May 4, 2014
Way too big!
I didn't end up wearing this dress. The sizing guide said it runs small in the bust so I assumed I would need the 8 instead of 6 since I'm pretty busty but even the 6 had too much extra space in the chest. The skirt was also really wide, but I will say I like the way it looked in the back. The fabric is much silkier and lighter than i expected--would have been really great for an outdoor spring wedding. I really loved this dress and wish I had sized down for my backup and ordered the 4. Would love to rent again in the right size!
Top Contributor
Size worn:
4
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Party
Usually wears: 2
Height: 5' 2"
Age: 31
Bust size: 34C
Body type: Petite
Weight: 115lbs
April 19, 2014
Simplicity of not stressing over what to wear
Sleek, professional, yet fun
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Size worn:
4
Overall fit:
Small
Rented for:
Party
Usually wears: 2
Height: 5' 3"
Age: 31
Bust size: 34B
Body type: Petite
Weight: 115lbs
April 11, 2014
Beautiful lightweight dress - runs small
Runs small in the hips - I sized up from a typical size 2 to size 4. Beautiful print. Lightweight material.
Top Contributor
Size worn:
4
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Party
Usually wears: 4
Height: 5' 6"
Age: 28
Bust size: 36B
Body type: Petite
Weight: 125lbs
April 10, 2014
Loads of compliments , comes off very classy :)
For my sisters wedding shower , it was perfect. It's very true to size
Size worn:
4
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Other
Usually wears: 4
Height: 5' 4"
Age: 28
Bust size: 34C
Body type: Pear
Weight: 125lbs
March 28, 2014
Beautiful fabric and pattern
The dress was big up top and tight around my hips and butt. I rented a 2 and 4 and I went with the 4. I have this problem with some designers because i have a big butt. I ended up wearing a black cardigan over the dress to conceal the bagginess and bunching in the back up top. The fabric has a little give but not much.
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Size worn:
None
Overall fit:
Small
Rented for:
Wedding
Usually wears: 4
Height: 5' 8"
Age: 32
Bust size: 34B
Body type: Hourglass
March 25, 2014
Didn't wear it!
I rented this for a wedding and was unable to wear it. I usually wear a 2 or a 4 in dresses and both were so tight in the hips I didn't want to wear it out. Pretty dress just an awkward fit!
Size worn:
10
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Wedding
Usually wears: 10
Height: 5' 9"
Age: 29
Bust size: 36B
Body type: Hourglass
Weight: 150lbs
March 3, 2014
Looks amazing on!
I rented this dress very last minute after my first rental option did not fit. RTR literally over night mailed this one to the hotel I was staying at, and saved the day! I found the dress very true to size. A lot of reviewers complained about it being tight in the chest, but this wasn't a problem for me at a 36B cup. The size 10 also had plenty of room through the midsection on me. It wasn't a form fitting, shape hugging dress, but was still very flattering with the detailing along the side and through the middle. I loved the little cap sleeve. I am very tall, so the dress was shorter on me so I paired it with black opaque tights for more coverage. I received a ton of compliments and felt great in it! Comfortable, easy to wear dress that stands out amongst the other LBD's.
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Top Contributor
Size worn:
12
Overall fit:
Small
Rented for:
Party
Usually wears: 10
Height: 5' 4"
Age: 28
Bust size: 36C
Body type: Hourglass
Weight: 150lbs
February 12, 2014
Really fun pick for NYE!! I was DEFINITELY the only one in this dress in Davenport that evening.
Great dress, the only problem i find with designer gowns is the lack of room for anyone with a bust. I had to go without a bra which was fine, but always a little uncomfortable for someone over a B cup.
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Top Contributor
Size worn:
0
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Other
Usually wears: 0
Height: 5' 1"
Age: 31
Bust size: 34B
Body type: Petite
Weight: 112lbs
December 13, 2013
Perfect dress
I felt incredible wearing this dress. I rented for my annual client appreciating brunch where I spoke in front of 300 guests Great success!
Top Contributor
Size worn:
0
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Formal Affair
Usually wears: 0
Height: 5' 2"
Age: 34
Bust size: 34A
Body type: Petite
Weight: 108lbs
December 5, 2013
Safe, flattering dress
I rented this for a semi-formal gala that I was unsure how other people would be dressed. I ended up not wearing it, only because I found and bought another dress prior to the event. I ended up wearing this to work with black tights and flat boots. Pros: Fit my body style (petite) very well, nice material (a little sheen, and a bit thin/silky). Just the right length, i.e. not too short or too long (but I'm 5'2"). Cons: The only con was that I didn't think it had a big "wow" factor. It's a great dress and I'd be happy to have it in my closet, but the fact I could get away with wearing it to work and not looking out of place sort of keeps it at "nice dress" not "amazing dress" levels. There's no slit in the back so your movements are a little restricted (not bothersome though) Overall I really liked it and would certainly recommend it to someone who is looking for a nice, safe dress to wear to an event- corporate event, wedding, etc.
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Size worn:
10
Overall fit:
Small
Rented for:
Wedding
Usually wears: 10
Height: 5' 9"
Age: 30
Bust size: 36D
Body type: Hourglass
Weight: 175lbs
November 28, 2013
gorgeous dress.. a little short!
got a ton of compliments on this one but as a tall girl this was close to inappropriate for a church wedding. tight and short but gorgeous.
Size worn:
4
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Wedding
Usually wears: 4
Height: 5' 2"
Age: 31
Bust size: 34A
Body type: Pear
Weight: 125lbs
November 24, 2013
I am so glad I tried on dresses at RTR, saved me money and stress!
I went to the Henri Bendel RTR boutique and tried on some other dresses before this one. I am so thankful that my stylist found this, it's SO comfortable and easy to wear. I paired the dress with simple black open toe heels and a clutch from RTR.
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Top Contributor
Size worn:
6
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Other
Usually wears: 6
Height: 5' 3"
Age: 53
Bust size: 36A
Body type: Petite
Weight: 135lbs
November 17, 2013
The dress is pretty.
I worn it for a wedding rehearsal and it served the purpose. The material does not look expensive but it's a pretty dress.
Top Contributor
Size worn:
6
Overall fit:
Small
Rented for:
Party
Usually wears: 4
Height: 5' 4"
Age: 33
Bust size: 32D
Body type: Athletic
Weight: 135lbs
October 21, 2013
Rehearsal dinner outfit
The fit is on the tighter side but it's a beautiful formal dress. I really liked the white paisly pattern on the dress and thought this was a beautiful detail. I would have never picked this dress out on my own so props to my showroom stylist for picking this one out!
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Top Contributor
Size worn:
4
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Other
Usually wears: 4
Height: 5' 6"
Age: 35
Bust size: 34B
Body type: Athletic
Weight: 130lbs
October 16, 2013
not impressed with this dress
Fit was true to size. But it is a Very thin material, Lace is printed on it not stitched or over layed. If shopping for a dress in a store, I would walk past this in a store and never look at it. I Wore it anyway because it was still appropriate for a baptism, good length on leg and appropriate front coverage for church. would not recommend.
Top Contributor
Size worn:
0
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Other
Usually wears: 0
Height: 5' 3"
Age: 36
Bust size: 32B
Body type: Petite
Weight: 113lbs
August 27, 2013
Gave a speech in this dress for work--cool and flattering, not stuffy
Turns out, the dress is a touch short for work occasions when you sit down, which I had to do on a high stool in front of an audience. Yikes. But standing, or for non-work occasions, this is a comfortable, easy, cool dress. It's not at all tight in the middle, but still flattering.
Top Contributor
Size worn:
10
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Wedding
Usually wears: 12
Height: 5' 4"
Age: 35
Bust size: 38B
Body type: Pear
Weight: 140lbs
July 21, 2013
perfect dress
I really liked this dress. I wore it with my long black blazer and it was perfect for an evening wedding. The dress is snug, so shape wear is definitely recommended.
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Top Contributor
Size worn:
4
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Wedding
Usually wears: 2
Height: 5' 4"
Age: 30
Bust size: 32D
Body type: Athletic
Weight: 125lbs
June 14, 2013
Classy Dress
I wore this dress to a friends wedding and it was perfect. It was comfortable yet very flattering the wat the design cuts at the waist. Highly recommend!
Top Contributor
Size worn:
8
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Party
Usually wears: 2
Height: 5' 7"
Age: 19
Bust size: 34B
Body type: Straight & narrow
April 30, 2013
great dress! love TIBI
Middle detailing is very flattering!
Top Contributor
Size worn:
6
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Wedding
Usually wears: 4
Height: 5' 6"
Age: 31
Bust size: 34D
Body type: Athletic
Weight: 120lbs
April 30, 2013
great dress
I received a lot of compliments on this unique dress and it was a really nice fabric!
Size worn:
0
Overall fit:
True to Size
Rented for:
Formal Affair
Usually wears: 0
Height: 5' 2"
Age: 24
Bust size: 32B
Body type: Petite
Weight: 110lbs
March 25, 2013
I'm in love with this dress.
The dress was beautiful! I wanted to keep it. I wore it for my sorority formal and felt neither under nor overdressed. I was worried that it would be too long (most things are), but the length was perfect. It was a bit big at the neck and waist and a little tight in the chest area but not noticeably. The fabric was lightweight and comfortable! I'm usually between a 00 and a 0, which is why I said that the dress runs true to size.
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